Housewarming Gifts: Small Things That Make a New Place Feel Lived In

Housewarming Gifts: Small Things That Make a New Place Feel Lived In

Housewarming gifts for the friend with new keys: candles, kitchen pieces, throws, vases and bar cart bits she will actually use in the first month.

The First Week in a New Place

The best housewarming gifts are the ones that get unpacked first. A new home is mostly boxes and echo, so I look for things that make a room feel lived in by Friday: something to light, something to cook on, something to sit under. These are the housewarming gifts I would send.

Candles and Matches

A candle is the fastest way to make an empty room smell like someone lives there. Maison Louis Marie and Heretic are the ones I reach for, and a long box of Paddywax matches makes the whole thing feel like a ritual. The vitruvi stone diffuser is a quieter option for a bedroom.

Numbered collage: 1. Dusa Fragrances USA Room & Linen Spray; 2. vitruvi Stone Diffuser; 3. Maison Louis Marie No.09 Vallee de Farney Candle; 4. Heretic The Entomologist Candle; 5. Nickey Kehoe Bernard Eira Candle; 6. P.F. Candle Co. Celestial Smoky Cinnamon – Standard Candle; 7. Paddywax Baguette - Extra Long Boxed Matches; 8. Voluspa Coconut Papaya - Corta Maison

For the Kitchen Counter

New kitchens are bare, so give the counter a face. The Hawkins New York Splatter bowl and plates are bright enough to make takeout look planned, and an oak board from Alexis Steelwood will outlast the lease. A good olive oil and balsamic duo from Le Marke covers dinner.

Numbered collage: 1. Hawkins New York Splatter Serving Bowl - Light Grey/White; 2. Hawkins New York Splatter Dinner Plate, Set of 4 - Ivory/Bronze; 3. Millstream Home Scallop Cutting Board; 4. Alexis Steelwood Oak Serving Board; 5. Alexis Steelwood Boyfriend Breakfast Chopper; 6. Le Marke Store The Duo: Olive Oil + Balsamic Vinegar; 7. Normann Copenhagen Craft Salt & Pepper Mill Set; 8. Holcomb Dripless Oil Can

Throws, Linens and Soft Things

Every new sofa needs a throw before it needs anything else. The Parachute Fireside throw in garnet is the one I would pick first, and the Snowe checked throw works in a lighter room. Embroidered hand towels from Nickey Kehoe turn a guest bathroom into a small surprise.

Numbered collage: 1. Parachute Home Fireside Wool Throw (Garnet); 2. Parachute Home Gather Throw (Evergreen and Sky); 3. Snowe Checked Throw; 4. Nickey Kehoe Barquito Embroidered Hand Towel; 5. Nickey Kehoe Miau Embroidered Hand Towel; 6. Quiet Mind The Weighted Pillow; 7. Baloo Living Cool Cotton Weighted Blanket; 8. Society Limonta Multi Alpaca Throw

Vases and Small Objects

A bud vase from Heath Ceramics is the housewarming gift that never feels like too much. One stem on a windowsill and the room looks finished. Trays from Hawkins New York and Anastasio Home catch keys, rings and the mail pile.

Numbered collage: 1. Anastasio Home Tray; 2. NUDE Dusty Rose Mist Vase; 3. Aerin Corvo Cachepot; 4. Sophie Lou Jacobsen Stryx Grande Copper Dish; 5. Heath Ceramics Bud Vase in Sunflower; 6. Heath Ceramics Bud Vase in Soapstone; 7. Hawkins New York Essential Nested Trays, Set of 3 - Neutral; 8. Hawkins New York Large Essential Tray - Cobalt

For the Bar Cart

A first party always arrives faster than expected. A mixing glass and jigger from Cocktail Kingdom set up the basics, and Graf Lantz wool coasters protect the new table. The Fort Standard bottle stoppers are small, colorful and easy to wrap.

Numbered collage: 1. Cocktail Kingdom SEAMLESS PADDLE MIXING GLASS / 550ml (19oz); 2. Cocktail Kingdom HOFFMAN® JIGGER – STAINLESS STEEL – 1oz / 2oz; 3. MATCH • Made in Italy Double Old Fashioned Glass; 4. Fort Standard Hobknob Bottle Stopper in Green; 5. Fort Standard Hobknob Bottle Stopper in Blue; 6. Graf Lantz Bierfilzl Merino Wool Round Coaster Multi 4 Pack; 7. Graf Lantz Bierfilzl Merino Wool Square Coaster Solid 4 Pack; 8. Snowe Cocktail Shaker

Where I Would Start

If you only have time for one, send a candle and a bud vase together. They fit in a tote, they need no instructions, and they look right on any shelf. Everything else on this list is for the second visit.